So Helpful

Riley what all about helping Brenden one morning that she started to climb into bed with him. I was worried that she would fall and hurt someone that I helped her into the crib. She had a great time. Brenden on the other hand was not too sure what she was doing in his space.

Riley is getting up-set at Brenden because he is still crying while she is trying to give him his binky. She does not like to hear him cry for very long before it up-sets her.

2 Month Check Up

Well we had our first well-baby visit and things are going well. Brenden is eating great and sleeping through the night. He loves to play and talk with his sister and will always give her a smile. Here are a few new things about Brenden: We weigh 10 lbs 6 ozs. We are 23 and 3/4 tall which is short for his age. Surprise, Surprise. He also is starting to talk more and more. He loves playing with Riley. He will smile and laugh at her regardless of his mood. He could be upset or mad and he will still find a smile to show his BIG sister. We also like playing with our buddy Reese. Here are a few pictures of Riley, Brenden, and Reese.

Here Riley is holding her little brother, Brenden.

Brenden with his buddy Reese. Brenden is older by 3 days.

Here is the gang. Riley, Brenden and Reese.

Look Who is 2 Months Old!!!!

Here we are at 2 months old. We will go to the doctors on Friday for our first round of shots. We will learn how much we have grown in the past two months. I have noticed lots of growth in him phyically and emotionally. Brenden has learned to many new things in the past two months including the following:

Smiling

Laughing

Choing/Talking

Sleeping through the night

Piggies

Here is Riley being her own human Piggie bank. She is having lots of fun placing her money between her toes. She did a nice job holding them in place. She loves to put things between her toes. Riley has lots of fun playing with money and saving our change in her piggie bank.

Say Cheese!!!!

Brenden is growing up way too fast. Here he is smiling and laughing at his BIG sister, Riley. Brenden is starting to do his social smiling and Riley loves to play with him and tell me when he is smiling at her. Riley will do anything to get him to smile. Let me tell you it does not take much for Brenden to smile at his sister. From the first day at home he smiled and laughed at Riley.

OUR SAD GOOD-BYE

Look at that cute smile.

Ben preparing to leave for his third tour in Iraq.

On Monday September 24, 2007, just 1 year after returning home, Ben left again for Iraq. This will be his third tour. We had a wonderful weekend but a very sad Monday. Our last weekend as a family of four we spent in Ohio at Dustin's parents' house. Dustin is a good friend who also left with Ben on Monday. We had a great time just being a family. We all got to visit with some good friends and relax before the craziness started. Here are some pictures of our good-bye with daddy.

Here are the three amigos; Dustin, Derek, and Ben. They have grown to be great friends and over the next 15 months they will learn more about each other and their families. They will be working together and spending lots of time with each other.

Riley had one final ride on daddy's shoulders while we were waiting/visiting with everyone who was leaving on Monday.

Brenden too had to have his small talk with daddy. Brenden was talking and smiling at daddy the whole day. Then just before this picture was taken daddy (Ben) was telling Brenden about growing up and playing with his sister. It was cute and sad all at once.Here is the final hug that the kids gave to daddy. It was so sad. I was strong all day until this picture was taken. To see Ben smile and put on a strong face was hard for me. I broke down. I knew it would not be easy but this was a lot harder then it was the past two times. I guess it will get easier once time goes by and we get back on a regular schedule.

WE LOVE YOU DADDY!! HUGS AND KISSES!!!

Growing too fast

Here is Riley on her new bike that Grandma and Grandpa Ringman bought her while they were here. She loves to ride her. She is now on a mission to buy a helmet so we can ride down our street and on post on the trails. Riley is very good at riding her bike and is very brave. Thank you again Grandma and Grandpa.

Brenden is growing up too fast too. He is now 8lbs. 8oz. and 22 inches long. He is filling out his 0-3 months clothes now. He still looks really small next to his little buddy Reese.

Here we are sleeping in our swing. He is filling out up his bouncy and swing too.

Relaxing at the house

Now that we are home we have had some time to just relax. Here are a couple of pictures of the kids relaxing in Mommy and Daddy's bedroom.

The Many Adventures of Brenden

Well now that its just the four us again. The adventures of Brenden began. Saturday after everyone headed back home, Brenden had a play date with his buddy Reese. Reese is just 3 days younger. We all went to Nashville to the mall. While we were there Brenden and Daddy and Reese and his Daddy went to Build-A-Bear to build a "Daddy Bear" with the guys voice in them to have while they are gone to work for 15 months. They did a nice job. During our trip I noticed that Brenden slept a lot and was only awake to eat. I did not think to much about because of the busy week had had with Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, and cousins.

Brenden with his "Daddy Bear"

Riley and Brenden's "Daddy Bear"

Then on Sunday Brenden's one month birthday I noticed that Brenden felt warm to the touch. I took his temp and it was 100.7. So off to the ER we went. The place was super busy. Most of the chairs were full and there were lots of people just standing around and waiting. I knew we would to there for most of the evening. We arrived around 4:15pm and waited for about an hour to see the nurse. Once we saw the nurse we were taken right back to talk to the doctor. Brenden's temp was now a 101.7. We waited for a little while and the doctor came to talk to me. He told the test he wanted to run and what would be happening. First he had a blood drawn. Then they went in and took a urine sample and that was all sent to the lab. Once that was done he head to x-ray to have a picture taken of Brenden's chest. Then we return to the ER and the doctor comes in to do a spinal tap on Brenden. A spinal tap is when the doctor draws spinal fluid from the base of the spin. This was painful for me to watch. Not only did I know the pain that this caused but the doctor was unsuccessful the first time and had to repeat the procedure. Still coming up empty handed. So he called for Dr. Rowe to come and try. Once she came I found out that we would not be going home Sunday night. Then she tried the spinal tap too. She tried and was unseccussful not just once but twice. I guess it was important that they get this because she tried again and on her third try and Brenden's five they got what they wanted. After being poked in the back 5 times we had to try and get an IV started. This too took many tries by a couple of different nurses before "Grandma" nurse came and had one seccussful go at his little arm. So then it was up to the fourth floor we went. This is were we stayed for the next 48 hours. We had lots of different test ran and everything came back negitive and Brenden went 24 hours without a fever. So the doctor sent us home today 11 September and we will go tomorrow to see Dr. Henry to be re-evaluated. Here is what the past 48 hours looked like for Brenden and I.

Trying to sleep

Finely asleep

Ringman Family Visit

The first time in two years Bill and Angela were able to have their whole family together in one place. Michael, Andi and the kids surprised Angela the Saturday after they arrived. It was nice to have us all together again. The last time this happened was when Riley was the size/age of Abigail. I am going to get you.

The hugs that never stopped.

Then came the kisses. Kissing cousins. Austin and Riley played well together the whole week they were together. She started missing everyone as soon as they left the drive way.

"Where are ME?"

Here is Riley's newest hiding spot. She has learned that she can fit into the kitchen cupboards and close the door. While she is hiding from all of us, she is screaming, "WHERE ARE ME?" and.....

..... As you open up the cupboard door she yells at you, "HERE ME AM?" She loves to play and hide. She also hides inside our closets. She is not afraid of the dark either.

TWO WEEKS OLD

Brenden is two weeks old today. This morning we went to our first doctor's appointment. It went well. We have a healthy baby boy. Not that we did not know this already. We are back to our birth weight of 7-14 and we are still 21 inches long. He is eating well and often. Sometimes I feel like that is all I do is feed the boy. He is alert when he is awake and he loves his BIG sister. He laughs when he sees her and follows her around when she is talking. Over all both children are doing well.

SIBLING'S LOVE

Brenden enjoying his floor time. We played with our new toys

and our piano. Brenden would flow the lights as they danced across the piano.

Riley enjoyed playing with Brenden and showed him how the piano worked. When she thought that he was done playing she decided that he needed to go into his swing. So as I picked up the toys Riley took it upon herself to pick Brenden up and carry him the two steps to his swing. She did a nice job holding him and carrying him but I let her know that she had to wait for mommy to help her the next time she wanted to carry her brother. She was just helping me.

FAMILY TIME

THE RINGMAN'S

Ben, Angie, Riley, and Brenden

This is Riley playing at the Brad Paisley concert that was

here the Monday before Brenden was born.

She is holding a glow stick ball in front of her face.

Here is Brad Paisley singing. We were not real close to the stage

but this is what we could see. We also heard Kelly Pickler and Taylor Swift.

We all had a great time.

CALLING ALL FRIENDS

Riley grabbed her phone and started to call everyone she knew when her little brother came home. Notice that we are watching Nascar.

TOO CUTE!!!!!

Here is BIG sister Riley with her little brother Brenden. She wanted to share her ice cream with him the first day he was home. She is always going up to him and shaking his hand and saying, "Nice to meet you Brenden." She has made the adjustment to having a baby around.

This morning Riley told her dad to go and take a shower and that she would watch Brenden. She just sat there watching him. No, Ben did not leave the two of them alone but I thought it was cute that she wanted to care for her brother like mom and dad do. Brenden enjoys having his sister around. He laughs and smiles all the time when he hears her voice or sees her face. They have a bond already.

PICTURES !!!!!!!

BIG SISTER WAITING TO SEE

HER LITTLE BROTHER.

Mommy and Brenden waiting to go home.

BRENDEN GEORGE RINGMAN

Well the wait is over and Brenden George was born Thursday 9 August 2007 at 6:37 pm. The day was long and full of waiting. Planning a delivery sounds like fun but it not. It's full of waiting and being pushed back due to too many natural active labors. Once we made it to the hospital and was put into a labor room I was in labor and having contractions about every 2-3 mintues. When the doctor came in to tell me it would be in the next half hour, she told me "If we don't get you back there soon you will have this baby naturally." My contractions patterns were better then those women who came in in active labor. I guess either way Brenden was going to be born on the 9 August. Here are soon ALONG WAITED pictures of the little guy.

BRENDEN GEORGE - 7lbs. 14oz - 21 inches

THE WAIT IS ALMOST OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well with just hours to go before Brenden George is here, I am running around unable to be completely prepared for what is about to happen. Knowing the date is almost worse then letting things happen on their own. I have not been able to sleep for the past week and that is only going to get worse once a new little baby is in the house. I have been feeling things or so I think I have then I think its all in my head. When you want something sooooooo bad your mind will tell you anything. But tomorrow 9 August we will have our second baby. The time is pending based on the number women in natural labor. The nurse who took my blood today said that last month there were 216 babies born at Blanchfield Army Community Hospital. I asked about this month but she had not looked at the books to know. I will have to find out tomorrow how many have been born up to the time Brenden cames. Life at the hospital has been crazy and busy for everyone.



My mom and dad made down on Monday and will be here to help care for Riley while mommy and daddy are at the hospital with Brenden. She has been wonderful and knows that something is going to be different after tomorrow. I am not sure if she is completeley ready either. Only time will tell. I will post pictures and information as soon as I am home and able to get to the computer. I know everyone wants to see what the little guy will look like but the internet only goes so far here.



On this final note I want to let you all know what I think Brenden will weigh and how long he will be. Brenden George Ringman - 7lbs. 8oz. 21.75 inches long. He will have lots of hair and look like his mommy.

PLAYING IN OUR "BABY" SUIT

Riley loves to wear her "baby" suit and play in the livingroom like its her "BIG" swimming pool. She also enjoys sunbathing in the doorway. Here are a few pictures of her in her baby suit.

Beautiful Butterflies!!!!

Here is a picture of the most beautiful butterfly that anyone will ever see. I know that it looks like it has two heads but those faces are pieceless. This was taken at the Toledo Zoo. We walked through the butterfly house and saw many butterflies the same color has this one in the picture. When we walked out and around the building Riley stood in this frame and asked to have her picture taken. This was a surprise because she did not like to have her picture taken at all that day. Our day at the zoo was wonderful.

Family Picture

This is the last family picture of us as a family of 3. We will be a family of four in just a few days. This picture was taken on 7-7-07. We were going to a friend's wedding, thats the only way I can get Ben to dress up. We had a great time.